The cruelty of nostalgia’s whip

This week for Wicked Wednesday, the prompt is Time Travel and, despite the plethora of fictional treatments, is something that is impossible. Without getting into the mathematical formulae that deal with the one-way arrow of time — nor the multiverse concept spawned by quantum mechanics — the oft-used example goes thusly: “If time travel were possible, then why are we not overrun by future iterations of advanced lifeforms either enslaving or lecturing us about what pathetic beings we are?”

But missy wrote about a type of time travel we all practice in her recent post, “Blame it on the Boots”, where she explains about her passionate {if not kinky} love affair with boots. In her post she travels back in time as she writes this passage: “The first time we visited Italy together, we drank too much wine and found ourselves in a lovely leather shop in Montepulciano. Here we bought my first pair of summer boots, beautifully soft, handmade, with leather soles.”

In our minds, the arrow of time does not exist. Memory serves as an instant reminder and flagellator of all the mistakes we’ve ever made. It takes an effort to realize there were many more good times than bad. Which brings me to the photograph below that was taken in the summer of 1981, in Como, Italy, through the narrow wooden doors opening upon the public street.

Como, Italy 1981

It was a long time ago and, someone else, another personality who took the picture. I see my past through their eyes and it makes me wonder about the impermanence of nostalgia. Memory is fickle and not to be trusted; the only path forward is to exist one moment at a time and revel in the sharp sting of leather upon flesh.

boots drum under whip
the cobbler would know the sound
cypress sway gossip
pink cheeks suffused by lover
Tyrrhenian Sea glistens

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5 thoughts on “The cruelty of nostalgia’s whip

  1. missy February 14, 2018 / 6:36 pm

    Oh I love this. The memories that called me back were positive, as was my experience of these holidays. I long to be back there sometimes. I do see that to travel in time will take you in both directions though. It is an interesting thought. And the other thought – leather on flesh – I am happy to exist in that moment 😊


    • lurvspanking February 17, 2018 / 10:22 pm

      Most memories should be positive; I know they’re not, but in the balance, time renders most experiences into rose-colored smiles. Especially when leather is involved.

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  2. Marie Rebelle February 15, 2018 / 6:26 pm

    You are so right, there are always more good times than bad, even in the worst of periods in our lives. We just need to cherish those good memories and not let them be faded away by the bad ones.

    Rebel xox

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    • lurvspanking February 17, 2018 / 10:24 pm

      It’s always a choice we make, when reliving the times when things went wrong, how we react when days and years have passed by. The emotions tend to fade a bit, but some things, even the bad times, should always be remembered instead of buried.

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  3. missy February 17, 2018 / 10:29 pm

    Holding on to a little of the bad does help to set perspective too which is often not a bad thing 😊

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Spank you very much

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